Thoughts on Perfectionism

What is perfectionism? What it is NOT is merely having high standards or striving too intensely to achieve a goal. Perfectionism can corner you when you are frozen by the possibility of making a mistake creating a painfully narrow view of life. It may be better to strive for excellence rather than perfection. A state of excellence requires efficiency using less time and effort and is associated with academic improvement, future success and better life satisfaction. Perfectionists’ wellbeing is at stake when they hold themselves to such inflexibly high standards that it leads to harmful self-criticism.

Understanding and Overcoming Math Anxiety

Math anxiety manifests as a sense of increasing fear when solving equations, such as on a math test or just thinking about numbers. Usually one knows how to do the math, but the challenge comes when there is an emotional overreaction to working through the problems. When we are upset, we cannot access the parts of the brain necessary for solving problems. And…the ability to think is exactly what is needed to solve problems in the first place. Choosing to believe you are “just not a math person” can complicate your life. It is clear that math is used throughout our lifespan and can affect career choice, money management, calculating dimensions for home projects or planning for retirement.